Who children can communicate with
Every person a child communicates with on VML Kids has been verified. There is no open messaging, no public chat, and no ability to communicate with unverified individuals. Communication is a privilege of the VML Kids identity-verified network.
How a friendship is approved
No child can simply add another child as a friend. Every connection requires a deliberate, multi-step approval process involving both sets of parents.
The child sends a connection request. This does not go directly to Child B — it goes to Child A's parent for review first.
Parent A sees who their child wants to connect with, including the other child's verified name and school. They approve or decline.
Only if Parent A approves does the request reach Parent B. Parent B must also approve before any connection is established.
Only once both parents have approved can the children communicate. All messages pass through moderation. Either parent can remove the connection at any time.
Every message is monitored
Communication on VML Kids is not private in the way an adult messaging app is private. Children and parents are informed clearly that messages pass through moderation. This is not surveillance — it is safeguarding.
No strangers. Ever.
There is no mechanism on VML Kids for an unknown adult — or an unknown child — to contact your child. No public profiles, no open search, no unsolicited messages. Every contact your child has on VML Kids is someone a parent has already approved. That is not an accident. It is the architecture.